Attraction Marketing 101… Do You Want to be Wanted?

March 8, 2013 in Attraction Marketing, News

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Attraction marketing, what is it? Do You want to be Wanted? Please say yes. That is why it is called “attraction marketing“. I think that basically, we all do. It’s human nature.

So, why then,  when we first begin network marketing, do we start chasing people. Now I am not judging you, but I know that you have done it. You know how that I know you have done it?  Because I did it too. That’s right, when I first got on the internet I was 100%  monkey see, monkey do. I did not know any other way.

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Why? Why do we chase people? Why are all these “so called” marketers out there chasing people. Because we are desperate. We want business, We want success. We want money. And we want it fast. Right here right now.But there is a much better way.

Attraction marketing is all about your audience finding you, finding out what your interest are and searching for someone like you to relate to. Not about you finding them.

This is not as hard to do as you might think. You see, I think a lot of people think attraction marketing is about building relationships with people. People that we are searching out to become friends with, so we can get them to join our opportunity.

But I think it is more about just being ourselves and focusing on “our interest“. As selfish as that may sound, if taken in the context that I am meaning, it is not. You see, if we focus on what we want, what our interest are, we are being real. We are being ourselves.

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Attraction Marketing – I’m Stuck on You

Like minded people with the same hobbies and interests and goals in life will see you just being real and will want to friend you and become acquainted with you, because they are just like you.

 

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Lesson Learned the Hard Way

 

I had actually decided to quit network marketing, I was getting no where and if no where was where I wanted to get, I would have been pretty successful in getting there fast.

After I had backed off awhile, something strange happened. People started  seeking me out. You see, inadvertently they must have figured that I was successful enough that I didn’t need to chase them around, and that made them curious.

That made them seek me out wanting what they thought that i had. That made them want to find out what I was doing  so that I could show them how. Let me tell you something, its nice to be wanted.

That is actually why i am here. Someone had asked me to help them and I did. And then someone else, and then someone else. Finally, someone said how about we start a team and we all help the whole team. Then we will all be successful.

By sharing our talents and skills and focusing just on what we are good at and using the skills of our team mates for the things we do not know how to do, we all grow together.

What am I saying? You mean swallow the ego? You mean that we should admit that we don’t know it all and learn and teach others. Learn and earn together? Help each other?  What the Heck? What a concept……………….

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2 responses to Attraction Marketing 101… Do You Want to be Wanted?

  1. It is business relationships we are looking for if we are marketing online, although if those turn into friendships because of other mutual interests that is a personal bonus. The closer the business relationship the more mutual help and support results.

    You can call on each others particular talents and experiences to create a more formidable marketing force. You can learn from each other, ask questions and know you will get an honest response (free from all the hype and false positive reviews you normally get). These people are more likely to follow you into your business(es) and you are more likely to follow them.

    Even if such a contact does not have experience, if you know they are serious about being successful and will work at it, helping them learn will foster that relationship even more. The time taken will benefit you as well as your contact.

    The team site you have created here is going to be wonderful for finding those people. If members actively participate, add content and answer questions, that is a great indication that they will be a supportive and helpful contact to have,

  2. Great post mate, good read. We all need to attract people, some do it better than others like usual, but it is something that can be learned over time. But remember it does take time.

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